Paul's positive affirmation of love's character is that love is both long suffering and kind. Here are two sides of the same coin. While in one sense love suffers long and patiently enduring personal injury and offenses, on the other side we repay those who are mean, unfair and mistreat us with kindness. Such ideas are really foreign and contrary to human nature. In our humanity it is natural to be self defensive, lose patience, get angry and give up on people. And when that is not enough we dream up of ways to get revenge ranging anywhere to outright violence, to a cold shoulder. No matter how you cut it- such behavior is unloving and not reflective of God. It is easy to be nice to people who are nice to us, but Jesus said, "Even sinners can do that!" The real test of your faith is to be kind and generous to those who are not nice to us, just as our Heavenly Father is kind to the ungrateful and wicked. So what are some ways we can be kind to others?
We can show respect to others even when we think they do not deserve it, or they disrespected us. All people have a desire to be shown the most common decency. Why is it we are so quick to show respect and be polite to a civil official for instance, but will think nothing of dismissing a homeless man as a bum and treating him as less. True kindness, shows respect to all people regardless of their lot in life or regardless of their actions. Simple gestures like Good Morning or Good Evening, or simply acknowledging someone else human dignity. Even the lowest of men reflect their creator to some degree, no matter how marred.
To show compassion and sympathy is another way we practice kindness. There are so many people who are hurting around us all day. Often we are so consumed with our own problems we feel little sympathy for others. Also we have become so desensitized to pain and suffering by being exposed to so much on broadcast media, that it is not even bothersome to us. It is common to hear of some tragic story on the 5 o'clock news, and we easily dismiss it. However, we need to cultivate genuine compassion and sympathy for others. When we see others in pain and suffering for whatever reason, it is easy to say, they had it coming, or poor souls, or think we have it worse. But the reality is we should see all human suffering to whatever degree it is, as painful to the person experiencing it, and show some type of kindness by "weeping with those who weep". But we should also seek to do something to alleviate the pain of others. James uses sarcasm to show how some people are kind only in their words,
"If a brother or sister is poorly clothed and lacking in daily food, 16 and one of you says to them, “Go in peace, be warmed and filled,” without giving them the things needed for the body, what good is that?" Ja. 2:15-16. But rather we should love people not just in word but in deed. If we have it in our ability to alleviate the pain of others and withhold, what are we saying about God who has shown so much kindness towards us?
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